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10 ways to have a better conversation | Celeste Headlee

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When your job hinges on how well you talk to people, you learn a lot about how to have conversations — and that most of us don't converse very well. Celeste Headlee has worked as a radio host for decades, and she knows the ingredients of a great conversation: Honesty, brevity, clarity and a healthy amount of listening. In this insightful talk, she shares 10 useful rules for having better conversations. "Go out, talk to people, listen to people," she says. "And, most importantly, be prepared to be amazed." TEDTalks is a daily video podcast of the best talks and performances from the TED Conference, where the world's leading thinkers and doers give the talk of their lives in 18 minutes (or less). Look for talks on Technology, Entertainment and Design -- plus science, business, global issues, the arts and much more. Find closed captions and translated subtitles in many languages at http://www.ted.com/translate Follow TED news on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/tednews Like TED on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TED Subscribe to our channel: http://www.youtube.com/user/TEDtalksDirector
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Nazi Aly (14 часов назад)
its amazing ted talk,,,enjoyed it
Nazi Aly (14 часов назад)
how can we intend to reply unless we listen ....
Tupaq Amaru (22 часа назад)
Don't be a pontiff, my favourite and kind of principle....... beautiful....
Dr. Lianie Jean (2 дня назад)
(1) way 2 go about enter-personal skills. [2] learning is fun. <3>differentiate AppRoach
I'm a Conversationalist
marco brenni (2 дня назад)
Celeste, you are a smart person!
Derick Ofodirinwa (2 дня назад)
Why the assumption that conversations are inherently beneficial or 'good'? We cover our noses when there's an offensive smell, why run towards an offensive conversation?
モウナHezbri (2 дня назад)
I need an English native speaker ! please ! I am doing doctorate degree about English speaking ! and I want hand from real Native speakers ! Could you help me ? Please !
diane dreyfus (2 дня назад)
Best advice in eons!
Luke Bravin (4 дня назад)
"kids are interacting with themselves through screens" Not true, just moments ago my housemate sent me a meme, I laughed and shouted down the stairs "good meme!", to which he replied with a chuckle :P
Kim Võ (4 дня назад)
Wow, I understand what have happened to me and the way I communicate with other people. Thanks God I got your video! It helps me to reflect myself a lot. Thanks you very much, Celeste Headlee <3
Trung Nguyen Van (5 дней назад)
I watch it for learn english...
Kelly Catbagan (5 дней назад)
4:27 when the intro ends and the content begins
Patrick Wachsmuth (6 дней назад)
Nice.
Pham Phuoc (7 дней назад)
She has a little nervousness, i can hear her breath
INDERVIR HUNDAL (7 дней назад)
Weather, health?Politics?Who are you married to and live with?Subject? can talk about?Interview peopleExpert in somethingOpen ended question Who, what, why and where? Try to get describingIf you don't know - sayExperience, individuals about them not youRepeat what they are saying not what you are repeatingNot Details - about you not detailsListen
Aivar (8 дней назад)
Советское Общество "Знание" в чистом виде. И его лекторы. Один в одинешенек.
Elna Navarro (8 дней назад)
Listen and be amazed, my most favorite line.
Lisa Siembida (8 дней назад)
Impressive speech, method of delivery was spot on, funny/enjoyable to listen/watch, and absolutely perfect conversation tips/reminders!!! It was informationally packed, direct and to the point, relatable, and helpful to anyone. 😂🎉
Concerned Geek (9 дней назад)
Coming back from the Jim Jeffries video about being ugly...trying to develop my people skills because I need it XD. Just remember mah fellow ugly ladies and dudes, or even mah average looking ladies and dudes, we're much more easy to approach so if you're fun to talk to too you'll be just as good at making friends as anybody else!
UMD // (10 дней назад)
She lookalike with the woman who was assisting Conan O’Brien in the Havana Club Rum Museum
Sandy Kaye (10 дней назад)
On the topic of relating to someone as they convey a tale of frustration or pain there is a fine line where an individual wants you to relate to them and share a similar story of your own so they don’t feel awkward and alone but generally they just want you to listen.
These Truths (10 дней назад)
Super good lesson on genuine/best conversation rules. Sometime after getting married, being an intelligence and law enforcement officer, and then dating in 201x after a rough divorce, I learned how to practice not being judgmental and disliking someone for differences or first impressions...because oftentimes they were wrongly interpreted (by me). It's allowed me to appreciate most people, stranger or confidant. Now I only discount the conversations of dirt bags that purposefully or carelessly hurt or abuse people, unless they have repented and made up whatever they can for their harm and are humble thereafter.
nugrohokhoironi (10 дней назад)
I hate it. You really tell the truth in making good in a conversation. You are the queen.
marina mari (10 дней назад)
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Milan Patel (12 дней назад)
I listened it carefully 😁
John R Borges (13 дней назад)
If this were a sermon, it's the best I've heard.
Jubayer Mufid (14 дней назад)
One of the best Ted talk ever
strawberryshortcake (14 дней назад)
I need this
Junior Farias (15 дней назад)
Ppl even argue about 'evolution' £peasants
Junior Farias (17 дней назад)
I think in 2100 ppl will want to marry animals
Lily Araqelyan (17 дней назад)
Amazing !
Hien Nguyen (18 дней назад)
love this one
Rakesh Singh (19 дней назад)
Silence is golden .
keshav kumar (19 дней назад)
I have done my self a service.
William Ellerbe (22 дня назад)
#ANewTakeOnConversation #CelesteHeadlee #ABetterConversation "A good conversation is like a miniskirt; short enough to retain interest, but long enough to cover the subject." (10:37) https://youtu.be/R1vskiVDwl4?t=637 As a person who can appreciate a great conversation, I can appreciate the wisdom in the quote from the Presenter's sister. Looking forward to more discussions by Celeste Headlee on TED Talks platform.
Lou Xavier (22 дня назад)
interesting. tricky balance. hard something else more
Pom Jam (23 дня назад)
this woman isn't communicating her ideas effectively. i feel like i'm being lectured to
WANG DANG DOODLE (24 дня назад)
TeD wat she seD. Growing as a teen I can recall talkin to one another and whoever brought out the ball during the daytime weather permit called what game we were going to play first from volleyball to football as I growed up and eventually became a sales rep I learned that I got better response from clients when I listened to what they had to say and especially calling them by name and referencing a past conversation to there personal concern and it occurred to me that people like to be remembered in some small way at best and more likely to respond positively, so that aside not only did I have better customer relation but also made good friends and good time 😃 Indeed
neggit (25 дней назад)
I'm terrible at making small talk because I deem it as useless :(
Ranger Dad (26 дней назад)
So, I do all that yet I am still a bore. 😐
Akbope Nurmakhanbet (26 дней назад)
Oh god she is so amazing😍😍😍😍😍😍
Courtney I (26 дней назад)
I used to be so shy I couldn't say a word to people. Now been trying to make friends online I talk too much n probbaly say more than I need too.. Pretty sure that's why people stopped replying me now lol..
Ige Kehinde Charles (27 дней назад)
#contextualthoughtorientation
Dawn Story (28 дней назад)
Thanks for the video !
John Pepito (29 дней назад)
What’s up with this crowd?! They seem really awesome haha
Eric Thanh Huynh (1 месяц назад)
thank you Celeste!
jose pablo jimenez mora (1 месяц назад)
Conoce perro
Anonymous (1 месяц назад)
you forgot one thing. most people are BORING. I become even more boring if they don't listen so they'll leave.
tinyPPT - Infographic PowerPoint (1 месяц назад)
So nice.
Nonya Bizness (1 месяц назад)
us older folk REALLY need to take #8 to heart- for the love of all that is good, PLEASE stop interrupting your own stories to spend long awkward moments growing more and more annoyed with yourselves as you stand there riffling through the back drawers of your dusty mental file cabinets for the name of a person/a specific place/a particular date etc. that relates to the story you are telling but escapes you at the moment. i am not being mean- i love stories! i do not need to know the exact date/time/place/name to enjoy your stories! you are doing a thing that, as i get older, i understand because it happens to me too. so, what she said: stay out of the weeds!!
Ian Wildon (1 месяц назад)
i have an IQ of 139.
Denny Hayes (1 месяц назад)
It’s amazing how wrong this girl is. Things like referencing Bill Idiot who lies about the causes of global warming, when anyone with a brain can go to any web site and see the list of green house gases and the causes. It turns out that over 90% is water vapor from the oceans, and humans can only contribute less than 2%. The only reason I can see for her even mentioning him must be to help companies who make sense anti pollution equipment. Another thing she said is to never repeat yourself. Any speaker knows that the more you say something, the more likely the person will hear it. That is why most politicians do it, and even trial court lawyers do it. Another concept she didn’t seem to address is that most people are sheep and stubbornly repeat something that they were told by someone they think has some authority. You can’t even have a debate with someone like that, because they have no rational proof for what they are saying. The only thing she got right, was when she said just get out of the conversation.
robertb2468 (1 месяц назад)
Denny why your fake science politics? Here something real. Both party's suck !! When Corporations take over our government it is Corporate style of Communism . Since Jan 20th 1981 corrupt Right Wing Trickle down Corporate Globalist economy. The Right wing's Wall street syndicate caused all the recessions , Reagan's 1981 and 1987 Black Monday, H W Bush 1990, GW Bush 2001 and 2008 the second biggest ever, and Trump's the next one , soon to visit a Main St. near you. Wages vs cost of living have lagged behind at an average rate of 2%, adjusted for inflation for three decades. We now work for 1/2 price. Now the Lefty's are riding the Corporate money wagon. So Sad. P.S. Hoover's 1929 Depression was the biggest one ever.
Jenny Jen1010 (1 месяц назад)
This was great advice! I needed to be reminded of some of this.
schalazeal07 (1 месяц назад)
"A good conversation is like a miniskirt; short enough to retain interest, but long enough to cover the subject." Hahahaha!! Great talk!
Balot Hontiveros (1 месяц назад)
Talk to people and ''Be prepared to be amazed''
Robbie Jack (1 месяц назад)
I didn’t watch the video, I just came here to comment. So, anyway - guess what happened to me today.
Tori Scot (1 месяц назад)
Nice
Johnny Schmegma (1 месяц назад)
So don't do all the things I do. Got it!
Thinkers (1 месяц назад)
1:45 i don't have any friends so i don't text messages
Евгений Альцшутер (1 месяц назад)
ебать, это этак невъебенно!
Bala M (1 месяц назад)
"Don't multitask" Yet here we are reading YouTube comments while watching this video.
fateme heydhri (1 месяц назад)
Great!
berry jordaan (1 месяц назад)
I'm so guilty. My way of showing someone that I understand what they are going through is to equate my experience with theirs. In honesty, my thinking is that if I can't understand what they are going through then clearly they are talking to the wrong person. And why strike up a conversation with someone who has nothing in common with you? Is the problem with me? I don't think so. Isn't that why we all know people we don't want to converse with? Maybe that's why I'd rather not have conversation with people but somehow people want to find a confidant in me. I'm not even good at keeping secrets. People are weird and complex????
Diego Vinícius Pereira Martins de Souza (1 месяц назад)
I saw this videos some days ago in a Qatar Airline flight; weird thing it was the only TED talk in the catalog. After watching it I understood why there was only one.
Butterfly X (1 месяц назад)
♥️
Ariff MAR (1 месяц назад)
Hear carefully from 10:36 to 10.40 ? ...
honey B (1 месяц назад)
Thank you well appreciated💫
Ryan I (1 месяц назад)
I still can’t connect with humans, I suck. Can’t even connect with my GF of 3+ years. It’s depressing. Therapy hasn’t been helping either.... I still watch this video and practice my best. I’m only 28 so I still got a little life left in me.
Jennifer Swanson (1 месяц назад)
this could be BETTER. give us examples of what we should do after the "don't do that" points
Vishnu Prasad (1 месяц назад)
☺☺
Gabriel Marquez (1 месяц назад)
I loved her in that movie The Heat!! LMFAO!!!
Khataroo (1 месяц назад)
This is my favorite TED Talk. She packs so much important information in about 12 minutes. It is most certainly, the most important people skills one can acquire.
Marie Minh Hạ (1 месяц назад)
I see listening is so important thing. Please advise me this case. In the Asian classroom, the students listen to the teacher talking only. They are so quiet and just listen to their teacher without asking question or talk about how they feel. Now many people see it's so harmful for students here. They learnt in an effective way. They need to speak up and challenge their teacher and asking for more understanding. What do you think?
Emtinan Samaren (1 месяц назад)
Be prepared to be amazed !
zztop3000 (1 месяц назад)
0:25 Lol, don't use fakebook.Nothing but socialism there. Why do you think they call it social apps.
S L O W - M O T I O N LIFE (1 месяц назад)
Oh God, I'm always struggling not to tell people I'm talking to "I know what you mean", "I know how you feel", "I get what you're saying"... Really great video with powerful tips. Thank you!
hexlgaming (1 месяц назад)
I feel like this is why people watch so much YouTube, TV or Netflix; they just don't really listen to what's been said & let their minds wander off (because of that, people speak at 250 words per minute but we can listen to 500 wpm, thing..
Kanga Kid (1 месяц назад)
This is brilliant, conversation is a wonderful art.
Олеся Иванова (1 месяц назад)
I think it was very interesting and useful advancer. Thanks
Nguyen Duong (1 месяц назад)
Hardly can I disagree with any of the 10 rules she made. All of them are so spot on. And I'm wordless to describe how much I got inspired by this talk.
Gérard Willems (1 месяц назад)
Wauw is was amazed
BlackhawkX02 (1 месяц назад)
Am I the only one who thinks there is a laugh track?
Jovana Spasojevic (2 месяца назад)
eye opening talk
Jerry Jefferson (2 месяца назад)
To those of you who watched this. Congrats you just finished your first task. Listening. :3
Ian Chi Hang Lau (2 месяца назад)
haha good job
Jack in Mike D Tomy Diss May (2 месяца назад)
Don't make eye contact? Including when asking out on a date and with eyes closed is ok?
Anju Jain (2 месяца назад)
Every word is a diamond. Everything should be so precise and interesting .
Dio L (2 месяца назад)
I like the speaker
Gilvan Maninho (2 месяца назад)
When you find your self around a group what is not gave your attention but pretending gave you anything than artificial attention gosh.. It's sks . depressing absolutely dep..
MsYooMEE (2 месяца назад)
One of the best talks I've heard. All notes taken. Thank you!
Vineeta Laskar (2 месяца назад)
I am amazed by your talk. Thank you for this wonderful conversation!
Thomas M (2 месяца назад)
great speech! you are awesome :)
E Garcia (2 месяца назад)
I’ve listened to this every day for the past week, thank you for educating me ♥️
Christian Alejandra Ortiz Amador (2 месяца назад)
Most amazing ted talk ever
Sunshine Taylor (2 месяца назад)
Holy moly you she is amazing
酒井さゆり (2 месяца назад)
g
Samir Shingarakhiya (2 месяца назад)
Wonderful headlee hats off for your speech
Mark Levers (2 месяца назад)
People on NPR are more careful with what they say because they're statements are being recorded? So NPR is a source of unbiased information? *WAHAHAHAHA!!!! LOL!
Garic Perez (2 месяца назад)
Interesting. Min 11:44, https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=stay%20out%20of%20the%20weeds

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